Why Is Sex Painful?

Do you feel some pain during sex? Or just find it somewhat uncomfortable? Then you probably need to change your sex positions to enjoy it better. Let`s explore various sex positions that will cut out all that discomfort and get you desiring more amazing sexual experiences.

7 Comfortable Sex Positions

Sitting on a Pillow Top

Sounds pretty straightforward from the name, doesn`t it? Okay, let`s show you how. Take a pillow, not just any pillow, but your favorite one,  to make the experience grand. Now place it underneath your pelvis for support, bend your knees, get your pelvis upward, and spread your legs wide apart enough to give room for thrusting. This position enables you to control the depth of penetration, as well as allowing for better clitoral stimulation.

Sizzling Missionary

No, it`s not the missionary you think; enough of the rhythmic up and down movement already. Try something new, will you? To do the sizzling missionary, instead of widening your legs, have your partner’s legs straddle your body, allowing mutual genital touching.

The Boycott

Well, there are times you just don`t want penetration but still want to feel great in bed. So boycott penetration already. Try some sensate focus exercises instead. Focus on erotic massage, sensual touch, and pleasure. You may even have oral sex at this time.

Side Cuddle

You may face each other or arrange for entry from behind; whichever suits you. If you’re facing you`re doing it from the back, use your buttocks to control the speed while your partner remains still. This way, you move at your own pace and control the depth. Good deal, isn`t it?

The Duo

Have you been self-stimulating your clitoris while lying on your back? Then it`s time to do the same style, but this time, with your partner. Get them to touch your breasts or kiss you, until you both are ready for penetration.

Riding into the Sunset

The name can almost get you aroused already. Wait a moment to see how to ride into this sunset. Get on top, and enjoy all the kisses and eye gazing. This position allows you to align the clitoris to your comfort for better sexual pleasure. What`s more? You can rock your pelvis back and forth to conveniently create a rhythm you and your partner are comfortable with.

Lean into me

Now you need to get off your bed. Yes, you read right! Find a table or wall to lean against, face each other, while one of you holds the other’s butts, and hook their leg around the other’s leg for support. Let the clitoris rub against the penis, and create a comfortable rhythm while you thrust yourself into one of the best times of your life.

Tips to Improve your Sex Life

Poor communication is one of the challenges of a number of couples. For some strange reason, there are people having sex more than they talk about it; in fact, some almost never talk about it, instead, bottle up their dissatisfactions.  To maintain a healthy sex life, you should be willing to communicate with your partner on your thoughts about what satisfying sexual connection is to you and how you achieve it. So let`s talk about communication as a vital tip in attaining sexual satisfaction, and how to go about this cringy thing called sex talk.

Find the Right Time to Talk

Sexual conversations may occur during sex and at other times. Discussing how great you feel is okay during lovemaking, however, that`s not the time to hold the more serious talks like your displeasures and corrections. Set aside a neutral time for that and tell it all.  Speak with your partner about your mismatched sexual desires, orgasm troubles, or whatever challenges you may be experiencing. Remember to ask them theirs too, as you may not be the only one with complaints.

Don`t Criticize

This is not the time for the blame game. There is even no time for that. Discuss your issues as politely as you can, and make suggestions in positive terms, such as, “I love it when you touch my breasts this way,” rather than using negatives expressions such as “I don`t enjoy it when you touch my breasts that way.

Be Honest

If your partner rarely ever gets you to orgasm, let them know. There`s no benefit in faking an orgasm. Be as open as you need to, and together, discover ways to deal with your sexual challenges.

Interesting Sex Facts

• Sex cures headaches and migraines.
• Sperm contains proteins with the same anti-wrinkle effect as moisturizers
• Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
• When a woman orgasms, the part of the brain associated with fear shuts off.
• Meditation improves arousal and increases the chances of orgasms.
• Some people get aroused when eating yummy food as if they`re having sex.
• Good sex triggers the region of the brain that’s linked to falling in love.
• People who have sex at least twice a week have a stronger immune system.
• People who have sex three times every week look five to seven years younger than those who don`t.
• For centuries, people have used sex toys to orgasm.
• An orgasm burns 2–3 calories, while foreplay and intercourse burn up to 50 calories.
• Studies claim that about 15–20% of American women have never orgasmed.
• Exercising for 20 minutes before sex improves sexual response.
• Lying nude on your partner enables the body to produce oxytocin, a hormone that increases intimacy.
• Women are 10 times more sensitive to touch than men are.
• There are about five calories in a teaspoon of semen.
• A sperm takes an hour to swim seven inches.
• Having sex at least once every week lowers a man’s risk of stroke by 50%, diabetes by 40%, and heart disease by 30%.
• Men who maintain an active sex life for the most part of their adult lives are more likely to live past 80 years.
• The word “clitoris” is Greek for “divine and goddess-like.”
• Married people are more likely to masturbate than singles.
• Ithyphallophobia is the fear of having, seeing, or thinking about an erection.
• The average speed of sperm during ejaculation is 28 mph.
• The amount of semen produced with each ejaculation is 1-2 teaspoons.
• The area of the addict`s brain that gets stimulated during heroin intake is the same as the area of men`s brain that orgasms stimulate.
• Studies claim that as early as 2968 B.C., men had multiple orgasms.
• On average, a man will produce about 14 gallons or 1/2 trillion sperm in his lifetime.
• Studies claim that the skin is the largest sex organ, and the brain the most powerful.
• Outside the bedroom, most American adults have sex in the car.
• Repetitive core movements make some people orgasm while working out.
• A person’s inability to reach orgasm is called anorgasmia, literally meaning “lack of orgasm”.
• The average man needs 2–10 minutes to climax, while on average, a woman needs 20 minutes to climax.
• Some women climax with merely 30 seconds of masturbation, however, this is rare.
• There are women who orgasm during childbirth.
• That spark you feel in your spine when you`re aroused is from the pudendal nerve; it connects the penis/clitoris to the brain.
• The penis and clitoris form from the same tissue in a developing embryo.